thanks for bringing this thread back to the surface, it sheds light on begging for affection. It also brings forth the mention of wanting to be that couple that doesn't throw in the towel. A relationship that gains respect and admiration from those outside the relationship.

I know of a few couples that have dug in for the duration. Cheating, as implied of your h running to bleeps is not part of their marriages and neither is withheld affection. One marriage I know that one partner wound up being treated for mi, but the spouse was upset and beside themselves and willing to learn and respect. They've had their fair share of ups and downs and yes I know them very well.

Withheld affection leaves me scratching my head as that's huge for relationship survival. Gentle non sexual as well as...