We met during my 1st week of college. I had an immediate crush on him, but we didn't date until after my 2nd year. We re-met unexpectedly, in mid-June, were married early October, and we've been together almost 39 years. I was only diagnosed with BP last March, but was treated for other dx most of my adult life. After the BP dx, I was more forthcoming with my feelings and experiences, since I just couldn't hide it anymore. It took him about 10 months to adjust and accept the changes I needed to make. But he's a solid support now.