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Originally Posted by Argonautomobile
I guess for me it all came down to nonjudgmental acceptance and positive mirroring.
Do you feel accepted by your T? Cared about? Liked? If not, maybe it's time to look for someone with a warmer therapeutic style?
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Yes, that's the type of information I'm looking for. I think he cares, but I don't feel accepted/liked. He doesn't give me positive mirroring or positive affirmations.
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Originally Posted by unaluna
Do you get the same bad reaction from your t that you get from your parents about a given subject? If you get a more neutral reaction, is that enough?
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I didn't get any reaction from my parents, I was neglected my whole childhood. I was alone, by myself, and was like a little grown up then out on my own at a young age (15). I did not have any parenting.
I'm not sure what he'd be reacting to though? Reacting to things I've talked about? He doesn't react much to things I say