I feel like it's just a game of numbers with these sites or that sometimes we all have some character flaw that we may be aware or not aware of and that's why we are all there...online. the same 20 people :/

I don't know where you find those girls, coffee shop? museum? fitness class? I guess it also depends where you live. I live in a town of about 150k people.. can't find anyone. but the closest metro area is San Francisco ... that place you can bump into your ideal person .. so many people there. I guess datingg is like real estate: location, location, location.

it's probably a good idea to hide that career title. though I'm not sure how you could describe your occupation. many women want to find that out ASAP. i tend to ask if they are employed period.. not for financial opportunity but because I've given a chance to the guys that don't have one or claim they're transitioning and then i foot the bill for everything or we literally take walks or watch movies bc he can't or doesn't want to cover his 1/2 of the recreation expense... tired of that.

I guess you could always say I have a career and I love it?