I first trusted my T because he proved, over and over again, that he meant what he said. When he said I was in control, I was: I controlled whether we talked and what we talked about. If I said I wanted to stop talking, we stopped.

I also think his complete acceptance of me has made me trust him. No matter how weird or "bad" I think I am, he accepts all of me. So I can trust him with all of me.