Are you a music engineer? My son is a jazz bass player, Music Engineering major. He's only 19, but he hasn't had any girlfriends yet. He says he's scared because he saw all the drama from his brothers wacky relationships.

His brother is 21 and wants to be a psychologist. He listens emphatically to girls/women and they LOVE him. But, he's had girls do all kinds of obsessive things and he gets into these committed deep romances that are volatile.

My engineer, though, has this very analytical mind and doesn't really know how to connect romantically with the girls. Maybe he hasn't yet gotten his mojo.