I'm not going to have children....I feel like wants2fly , that I would not be a good mum. My Mum always seemed like she resented us...sometimes feel like i ruined her life, shes a smart talented woman who never got to do much with her gifts.

selfishly, I want to keep on with my career...more guilt! I get hassled by my parents, we want more grand children, what about your husband? people have made hurtful comments to me about wanting to be childless...that its selfish. I think it would be a bad thing to bring a child into the world that in your heart of hearts you didn't really want....as much as you would grow to love him or her. Children feel this.

Himali