Sherri: Hi
From what I've read and understand, an abnormally small hippocampus causes one to easily dissociate. Have you a brain scan done?
DID is so accusatory even though nothing evilly bad has happened. A bit of trauma such as a visual observation of even a staged deadly accident can be more than the brain can process according to what I've read.
Therapy and love is all it takes to make one whole. We are slower to learn...but that doesn't mean we can't get well. Just hang in there and give loving support...she'll come around.