Sorry, from experience, I liken the dating websites to throwing a hook into the ocean and pulling out who knows what kind of monster. I will say, if you can get a person to correspond with you, as opposed to insisting on quick meetup, that is a positive sign. Sincere folks should be willing to exchange ideas and share before a meeting in person. Also, be wary of giving your phone # for calls. I truly have nightmare stories from the dating sites!