Over a few months of therapy, my therapist seemed to get quite attached to me. I would make his day if I called, he started to get close, hold my hand, tell me I was amazing, etc. Unsure of what was going on I talked to my doctor but she said couldn't be so I took a month break from therapy before returning. Then my therapist sat me down and told me I was experiencing transference and projecting these feels on him. He assured me that it was ok and not to be embarrassed.

I couldn't understand how it was transference....counter transference I could understand. I am 36 yrs old, decent looking, blue eyed girl with good curves, he was a 50 yr old married man with gray hair with 2 daughter in their early 20's.

Anyways stupidly I continued therapy with him. Things continued because I assumed that his courting me was apart of therapy and my doctor got suspicious because they worked in the same office. She would see him escorting me around the building, taking me for walks, and him making comments. Anyways at the next opportunity he is made new diagnosis, get my psychiatrist to change med's etc. Then the opperuntity to involuntarily hospitalized me arose. He then told everyone that I was psychotic and suffering the delusion that I was in love with him. I was shot full of anti psychotics and placed in isolation.

After being released from the hospital I was put back into the therapists care. I tried not to go but was told I would be non compliant if I refused and placed back in the hospital. The therapists continued his courting, so I switched to a different psychiatrist. I told the new psychiatrist what was happening but he didn't believe me at first. Then the therapist wanted to sexually fantasize with me in session and I refused. So he called up my psychiatrist to get me hospitalized again. I refused to go back to the therapist so the psychiatrist monitored me himself. A month later, the psychiatrist told me to file a complaint against the therapist.

I am now seeing a new therapist but I shake in the chair for an hour each session while we talk. I am so completely scared that it will happen again, not just with therapists but with any doctors. How does a person get over something like this.....and is it possible?