Now... I want to say this very gently indeed. As gently as possible...

Is it possible that you misinterpreted your therapists non-sexual interest in you as sexual interest in you? It could be the case that... If you have only experienced someone being so attentive to you in the context of a sexual relationship... That you think that someone only can be that attentive to you in the context of their wanting to have a sexual relationship with you.

Is your current therapist male? It might be that you would be better off working with a female therapist.