Dec 11-12, 2005 my anniversary of my rape, torture and almost death by strangulation. It's almost 2 yrs ago and it's still like it happened today. It gives me hope that you have found someone that you can trust.

My suggestion is take the day off to grieve and treat yourself right. Could be a nice spa day or just a day to laze around in pj's. Remember you survived this and remember your life has moved on successfully. You will get through it....you've been through 9 anniversaries already.

Remember the best revenge.........is living well.

PS. Sept. 18 is the DOB for the man who did this to me, so you won't be alone another anniversary for me too.