Actually I have seen her in real life and she gives out very positive signals. I'm no expert but she makes good eye contact and smiles a lot. I've been giving this a lot if thought because I ain't young and having to deal with a child wasn't really in the cards at this point. Also, like I said I'm not sure if we're soulmates but she is attractive. I'm probably not going to persue this because of all the reasons I've stated - shame because I really like the attention. Thanks all.