I'm sorry, I really don't understand the woes and sorrow of being a virgin. It's not something I sympathize with, but I do want to help you. Not only are you self-wallowing, you're using a crackpot bull---t article to legitimize your woes and self-pity.

You have to delve into your conscious and determine what it is that's holding you back from having sex. What is YOUR reasoning behind this. The only catch is that you can't blame others. No, you can't blame others for your sexual inabilities. You need to uncover why you can't find someone to have sex with. Do you want true love? Are you waiting for the right person? Does sex scare you? Why aren't you putting yourself out there via dating websites and ultimate life-living until you find someone? Why have you given up on dating? Those are questions only you can answer, but what I really don't understand about virgins who are absorbed in their self-pity is that they give up and just wallow without making any effort to change it. You're 34 years old, you're genitals, time, and energy are intact and your mind and body is still young...why are you upset about this now? You're in your prime. You won't die tomorrow, so do whatever you're afraid of. Join an online dating website, join social clubs with people your own age, it's not too late! Forget about having sex and focus on building friendships and relationships. You don't have wrinkles yet, so now is not the time to worry. Now is the time for action.