I have BPD too and it's definitely effected many, if not all of my relationships. I'd know in my head that I was in the wrong relationship but my codependency would keep me in a sick cycle of self loathing and self blame. I'm quick to believe others when they point their finger at me in a fight. I take all the blame and hide to lick my wounds. I'm actually in this mess right now...again! But I'm working on my mental health right now and I want to be stable before I do jump the gun here. We both have a lot invested and had big hopes and plans from the start. I want to know I'm making the right decision when it does come down to it.

You may get lots of help in the "relationships and communication" section here as well! That's often where i vent all my issues with this.

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