My mum and father have been divorced for 5-6 years now and somehow every male figure that enters my life I instantly put him first whether that be a friend of my mums I meet or even a male friend of mine.. Like my mums ex boyfriend (let's call him "B"). "B" was my mums friend for a long time even before I was ever thought about and then after the divorce, they started dating and "B" was perfect like he actually cared about me, made sure I was okay and he helped me with my music and he loved us and for once I felt like a family again until he started loving drugs more than us.. My mum couldn't deal with it again so he moved out and eventually got a new gf... A few years later he messaged my mum he was in a rehab facility and I was so happy you know, because this means when "B" is done we can be a happy family again right?! (He has a son too) but no.. My mum said absolutely not because he hurt her so much and all which I mean I get that but I still want him, I still talk to him kinda, and we were talking about visiting and I hope we can soon.. He's got a lot on his plate right now, his son is doing heroine and yea.. Idk what the point of this was I guess just a vent but do you guys have any advice or something? Idk..