Hi again - please will somebody write me about all this and their thoughts? I have to say I woke up today feeling lighter, and happier than for a long time. I haven't done anything, but I know I will and this freedom I feel comes from finally acknowledging that they cannot/will not ever give me the care and love I want, whatever happens and whatever I do or say. So I'm not "burning my boats" because the boats sailed out of the harbour a long time ago!