Thank you, divine. I shouldnt need to report to my x husband, but the contact has been going on for years and every friday at set time and to not talk openly makes me feel bad. I know I dont owe him anything. I know that I actually feel guilty for moving on. Even he was the one leaving me. Its not normal. N said I dont owe my x husband anything, that I have to be my own person, that I am not my x husbands slave that need to tell him everything. He said same as you.

I am thinking the same as you, why N was interfering so much. I think because he want me to belong to him and maybe have control. He didnt want me have more contact with my x husband and when deleting all the FB men/people, he uttered annoyance over these men being in my list.

It might have been controlling. I dont know, but it can have been. Its hard to know since I myself told N about all these Iraqi people bombarding me with calling me on FB, calling and calling, leaving crazy messages.

Maybe he was just annoyed because of them bothering me. N said he didnt want anyone to bother me with sick messages.

He deleted and blocked everyone except for my friends and friends of friends.