((((stormy)))) your story is heart breaking and i dont know that there are any right or wrong answers. maybe you should send a letter by mail and tell them what your intentions are. if things are this this strained it may be wise not to put a return address on the outside of the envelope. this way you can say what you need to say without interuption or criticism. and without taking any abuse over the phone from your sister. if your son seems more receptive address the envelope to him. atleast you can say what needs to be said and know that you have tried. i wish you all the best in becoming a family again. you can't make up for the past but you can try to build a future.

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