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Originally Posted by granite1
heading to therapy in about 30 min and i have so much to share with my T this week .my son came home to visit and brought up a lot again .i just wish she accepted how i see things . can someone please help me with some ideas how to do this . i feel so miserable and i try to talk to her about it and she disagrees with what i say . i mean she doesnt have to but i wish she could help me with how i see things instead of just telling me it isnt real
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I think she may see her telling you how she thinks the way you interpret things is not the accurate interpretation - equals helping. I think she accepts that you see things the way you report - just that she does not agree that the way you see things is what is really going on. In other words - she sees how you see/interpret the world but does not agree with the interpretation. For example -you think people at the store hate you and you want her to help you with the hate and she does not believe people at the store hate you and wants to help you see that the hate you believe others have for you is not there.
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