You are wrong on multiple levels. First off, I didn't "reject" anyone. These girls I am talking about didn't ask me out, they just showed clear signs of being interested and I did not pursue it because I wasn't interested. And what makes you think I didn't take the time to get to know them? One of these girls I was very attracted to physically at first, but then when I got to know her, I realized she is not the type I am into at all. You don't need to date someone in order to get to know them. However, there was one time where I got asked out by a female friend. She was nice and not bad looking, but I wasn't interested in her. However, I said yes because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. It turned out she and a couple of my friends were playing a trick on several guys and I was one of them.

But here is what's funny. I once suggested on here that a girl who isn't interested in me initially might develop feelings for me when she gets to know me. I had women on here accusing me of imposing myself on girls who aren't interested and not respecting their choice. They were adamant that if a girl wasn't interested, she won't become interested and that I should just give up on her. Yet here I am being told that I should date girls I am not interested so that I might become interested over time.

It seems to me like it is totally acceptable for average women to seek really high quality guys, but average guys are expected to seek girls, as the poster above put it "in their bracket". I don't see how this is fair or reasonable.