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But here is what's funny. I once suggested on here that a girl who isn't interested in me initially might develop feelings for me when she gets to know me. I had women on here accusing me of imposing myself on girls who aren't interested and not respecting their choice. They were adamant that if a girl wasn't interested, she won't become interested and that I should just give up on her. Yet here I am being told that I should date girls I am not interested so that I might become interested over time.
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Well to me going out on a date or two with someone is mainly for fun, to explore, and to gain experience. These things, in my opinion, are worth having. Therefore my main thrust is to encourage you to speak with women who interest you or express an interest in you and ask them out, without paying too much attention to "bracket" or whether you are "settling" or "acting weird". Ask! In my mind you are not imposing yourself, or disrespecting a woman's choices, because if a woman doesn't want to go, she will say no.
I just think you will benefit from the experiences (positive and negative) that result from going ahead with dating. Besides: woman A may not be right for you, but she might know woman B.... or a woman who interests you might notice that you are growing from your experiences and become more interested in you...So my advice is to get into the arena!