Something I am not sure if some of you realize. My only two motivations for wanting to date are infatuation and sexual attraction. Basically, when I get a crush on a girl, that is when I get the desire to have a romantic relationship. In the absence of that, the only interest I would have in a dating would be sexual. But that would be casual dating and not a relationship. Most girls are not seeking that. So basically, those of you telling me I should seek romantic relationships with girls I am not infatuated with are making no sense. I am not someone who is looking for a life partner or a baby-maker. Aside from infatuation and sexual attraction, I have literally no motivation for being in a relationship with a girl.