I have worked very hard to trust my therapist. It hasn't been an easy undertaking and I freely admit that there are times when I'm simply waiting for the other shoe to drop and for her to disprove my shaky trust. . . but I've also come far enough to realize that much of this suspicion and hypervigilance is from my own issues. It's not an easy path, but I do love her consistency, unflappable, totally calm demeanor and most of all, I LOVE her willingness to own her side of the relationship!