ohhhhh man....so hard isn't it... my T took off for emergency surgery one time.. and I just loved her.. and wanted her to get better.. but at the same time I was like "what about me"... "don't leave me"....

I know this subject came up before in another thread.. and there were different opinions... but I did end up calling a few times to a on-call T... the person was very caring.. and gave me reassurance when I needed it.. so that helped me..

In the meantime... you have us...