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Originally Posted by unaluna
What a great session! There is really a different flavor to the conversation between you and your t - a different give and take. You really are staying more present, more in the moment.
There is SO much distance between our brothers then and us now. I think thats a big part of trying to reconcile the past. I saw my brother today. Its like looking across a mine field. It could be clear, or it could blow up. We dont really have a bridge that takes us from the past to the present. We just never put the time or effort into it.
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Thanks, unaluna! You noticed!
Yeah, I thought I was honest with my T, but lately our interactions have gone to a new level of uncharted territory and honesty!!!
Thanks for sharing about your brother. Mine lives in another country, so we only email. I can't get over that he has such a different view and memory of what happened between us! It seems like we're both defensive in different ways. I always wanted to know the truth, but there is no truth, just perceptions and feelings. Except T thinks I covered up my feelings. Last time I posted about my brother, most people thought it was abuse. I didn't understand that, so maybe T is correct.