Ak482, viriginity is not a concept that has finality or that is set in stone. Does somebody that die as a virgin, should be considered a pathetic trash person? Asbsolutely not. Just as someone that isn't fans of the Toronto Blue Jays or doesn't do mountain hiking isn't a pathetic trash person. It's all a matter of perspective and everything is relative. Society makes it so that virginity is regarded as a weakness, a flaw but it couldn't be farther from the truth. Just as not wanting to partake in alcohol binging is totally okay for a young man between age 18 to 25. Our society has those ''norms'' but it is just that and when you realise that most of those so-called ''norms'' were established either for enrichment of the globalists or so they can control our lives without us without realising it, you come to the conclusion that is totally okay to not follow them. These special interests will use the media and any mean possible to tell you what you should do and what you shouldn't do but I tell you this : yourself only, know what you should do, not the media, not the politicians, you. Being a virgin is being a virgin, it is just that, it's a fact that might change when you lose your virginity but nothing more. I never ate squids but if I ate some tonight, this information would change for ''I ate squids once''. Does it matter if I did or didn't? Not at all. The whole virginity is blown out of proportion. It does not matter at all if you're a virgin, does not matter at all!

You're looking at the wrong problem my friend, btw, there are no problems, just solutions! Not being a virgin is not the cause, it is the consequence. What is the cause or the multiples cause of your consequence, why are you still virgin? If you can find the answer(s) to this question, then ask yourself this ''how do I correct it or them?'' And when you'll have done that, believe me, virginity will have stopped being a problem. It will be a simple fact that has no value whatsoever. I'm a virgin myself and does it trouble me? Not at all. I'm 26 and I'll tell you what, I had over 10 chances I could have lost my virginity, did not do it because I have no interest in having sex with someone I don't love. Does the fact of being a virgin was harmful to me? Not at all. I'm a successful engineer, I succeed at all I do, I'm living my passions to the maximum and I'm very happy in my life. I'm still a virgin because I did not meet the right woman yet and that was my own decision. Does not make me a pathetic trash person, should not make you feel like a pathetic trash person.

Take care and do what I told you in the previous paragraph (if you want), I can guarantee you it can only improve your quality of life and you might lose your virginity, we don't know...