I just started reading this thread..I don't mean to be mean and trust me it isn't meant that way. but geriatric in your 30's to me was funny. I am 58 and just started dating a man that is 46. We really have a great time together. He is an awesome man. Your man will come hon. Trust me. I never thought I would find this kind of love in my life. just my 2 cents worth. Good luck and enjoy.