My wife last summer met some guy she had been "talking to" and they of course had sex. This happened several times after I found out more. Was there something wrong in the marriage...yes. But I feel like you really have to be careful about getting emotionally attached to someone over the internet.....its just a step in the process .....infact I think it speeds the process up of getting to know someone because people say more than they would if they were face to face...so the relationship moves fast.
The oral sex part? um yes I would agree.