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Originally Posted by BLUEDOVE
2006 mentions immaturity,let me add a more accurate
term: Adult-Children! This is when some people are
really children inside--they LOOK like adults,but because of their upbringing,for whatever reason,they
never grew up. Which is why they are using childish
emotional tactics to control you. You MUST make them accept,yes you love them,but NO I will not let you
control me and my relationship; you need courage and
persistence to get them to FINALLY accept that,that you will NOT be CONTROLLED by them.
Kind Regards,
BLUEDOVE
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Thank you for this, I thought by me moving out I was pointing all those things but I was wrong. I am going to continue to make them understand that they cannot control me even if that causes us to be apart, because if they love me like they say they do then they should be able to accept me and my decisions, the same way I respect theirs.