There is nothing "wrong" with what you have stated here. Also, it is understandable that you are not "just" looking for "attractive" but also a certain chemistry, that is what girls look for too. Quite honestly, we are designed that way as there are things within the chemistry itself that is there without our even knowing, it's in the faramones and other unseen things that are a draw from the different sexes that pick up on what could produce a healthy child, even if that is far from what you have in mind.

At 28 your brain is now fully developed and with that you have developed some strong desires to explore, that is what my nephew wanted and finally realized what "is" important to him. Often when marriage happens "before" the brain is fully developed and the individual has "more" understanding of themselves, this time comes where a man and even a woman can want to explore, often this is when most "cheating" takes place, late 20's early 30's.

It is still important to find out what you have that has "worth", how to learn how to increase your worth, as well as how to learn "more" about seeing the needs of a potential partner. The goal is to finally find someone that compliments you and visa versa. You are only doomed if you don't takes steps to "learning". You have taken a step by starting this thread and getting different feedback. Even that is helping you learn things in how you have slowly been identifying what you are really looking for.

I can see you liked my input, well, you like to "learn", now the next step is learning how to "engage" a woman better by asking her things in a different way. That is why I posted that link and gave you an idea about asking for some kind of favor. You like that kind of attention correct? I did not just judge you and then have others thank me for it, well, there are plenty out there that make quick judgements, that doesn't work well for you. Now you have to learn how to engage that aspect in a female you are attracted to and would like to spend more time with by adjusting what kind of questions you ask. You "liked" how I made you feel with my answer right? Well, that is another "important" lesson because you may not remember everything I said in my long post, but liked how it made you "feel". That is something you also need to think about when interacting with women. When you ask them to do something "for you" that is a consideration of their "value" and women do responds to that.

So you can do some research and come up with a list of things you could ask that can give the "woman" the control, that is important because women don't want to hear or feel like you are asking, "hey I need to get laid, you are hot, let's go do it", then even if the woman did agree, what do you know about how to please "her"? Lots of men make that mistake which turns into them being "sexually selfish", and how do you think that makes the "woman" feel? Keep in mind, we always remember how someone else makes us feel.