ah. yeah, its clear.
maybe... there is a bit of a middle ground...

because things can be kind of over-thought.
but then things can be kind of under-thought too.

maybe it is more about giving it time. time to get to know each other. that will happen over time. things that you don't get time to process now will recurr and you might be able to ask about them next time. other things can be worked around (such as the getting up late thing).

don't forget to enjoy the good feelings...
i guess i think the 'real issues' will sort themselves out in time.