Well in my opinion it is a big deal. Making plans to hang out with other women behind your back is a big deal. Now what made you feel insecure? How is he treating you?

I wouldn't confess right away because he would just hide better next time. If he makes plans to hang out how is he going to go about? Do you live together? Wouldn't you know when he meets up with her?

I agree with healing idea of asking him questions in regards to your relationship and how you feel about it and then see what he has to say?

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