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Originally Posted by divine1966
Are you very selective in who you are attracted too then? Have you tried online dating? You can then select based on looks as they would have photos. And you can break ice by talking online first. Even for sociable and outgoing people it's not easy to approach strangers. They might not be available etc
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I don't think I am too selective. I come across girls I would be interested in dating pretty often. However, I have standards and I will not be interested in just any girl who comes along.
Well unfortunately the majority of the girls I find myself interested in are girls I don't really know.. The girls I am socially connected to are so few that the likelihood of me liking one of them is low. With strangers(girls at the gym, the mall, waitresses at restaurants, etc.) there is so much variety, so yes I am much more likely to find girls I like among them.
Online dating doesn't appeal to me because I cannot know before I meet a girl in person that I like her. I feel like it is too much of a hassle to go out with girls you don't like and then have to tell them you don't like them. Plus, most girls on dating sites are looking for a relationship. I want a girl who is dating me because she likes me, not because she is looking for a relationship.