Sorry to hear your bf lied to you. It's a good thing you found out now. If he is lying to another woman and leading her on, you can bet he is doing the same to you. This is his shtick. He lies to get what he wants, then lies when he gets caught. He is a little boy that never grew up. I don't see how you could trust him or even think he deserves your trust. I do understand being so in love you want to believe every excuse this man comes up with but try to see the facts. He is just another lying man and will keep you waiting and holding on to excuses for as long as he likes. If you ever want to marry, this man does not sound like he will ever actually commit. I am sorry but you need to heed the warning that is staring you in the face.