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Originally Posted by Focus62
I lost my virginity at 19, and I'm pretty sure the guy I lost it to was smaller than you...I didn't care. I don't think the first thought that pops into a girl's head when they're about to have sex with you is "wow, that thing is tiny/large". It certainly wasn't mine, I was focused on our closeness and how I felt good with him.
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I can say I've actually HAD that experience before, at the point when the pants came down and I was disappointed in his size. But he was unusually small and a virgin to boot, so I didn't say a single word to the contrary.
I was a late bloomer, and gave my V-card up at 27. I guess the main reason was I felt abnormal to be such at that age, but I really did have feelings for the guy whom I gave it too. In fact, I still fondly reminisce about that night and him from time to time. You never forget your first I guess.
Besides, OP, like the previous posters said, if you find a woman who is truly in love with you and vise versa, she won't think twice about size or shape, but rather how well you two connect on such an intimate level.