Well you make a bad thing that you accept that idee ,because if you accept a negative ideea in your subconstient mind it will become reality ,also its with positive sugestion .I would sugest you to not hear what other say to you make your opinions aboout life .Start reformulating every day aonther autosugestion : for ex i am a good driver i am good and i have confidence in me .I hope you get my point ,you must repet only benefits idea on your brain do not think at negative think or what do you do not want .Good luck to you and be happy