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Old Apr 07, 2016, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
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But holy cow, some nerve of this person to give such a judgemental load of crock after you were honest about your disability. Honestly it's not like people wake up one day and say hey, I'll just collect disability and doctors readily agree. Geesh, ignorance on that persons perspective. How sad to have no clue how the world works!

Maybe a polite but terse reply would suffice, then wipe your hands clean??



the really sad thing is, she's had some hard times before (from what she told me), which is why I even took the chance in the first place and shared that extremely personal stuff with her. cuz I thought for sure, she might be able to understand, at least on some level.

she's actually more of a friend to my aunt than me, which is how I know her. (so she's older and actually has kids my age) so I'm assuming she would have at least heard a few things from my aunt, to SHOW her that this is no 'stunt', so to speak.

but maybe it's just like you said, people have their ignorance and judgements. that's the way they are - nothing we can do about it...
Thanks for this!
healingme4me