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Old Apr 07, 2016, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
She may be just saying that to hurt you now.

But suppose it is true.

I gather that you loved her and that love was helpful to you, it gave you joy, meaning, purpose. If it is true that she was using you then she was simply hurting herself and denying herself the true love that you yourself experienced. Whether or not she loved you in truth, you loved her in truth.
Great post! If the relationship gave you all you seeked, I'd say it's pretty much your ex that lost her time during the 5 years and you lost nothing at all, you got everything you seeked. Of course, I don't know if that's what happened but if it is then there's nothing to worry about. If not, learn from it so the next time a girl try the same little game, you won't be fooled again. You see, there's positive in practically everything.
Thanks for this!
Bill3