Patagonia - thanks for that insight. It seems to me he didn't save his subpar behaviour just for me. He treats everyone like this. And most likely many people bow down to his expectations. Which means he views me as profoundly flawed. I don't allow myself to be defined by others, so whatever he sees in me exists inside of him only. I know who I am and I know I don't want to work with disrespectful people.