My younger sister and I got into a fight the other day while I was visiting her and my parents. We got along OK for awhile up until now. We've had a lot of issues with each other in the past. She recently snapped at me, so I got mad and defended myself.

Anyways, things were fine at first. We had fun at first. She made me laugh, but then she snapped at me like she normally does. She snapped at me after it was time for me to pay her for doing my hair.. She tends to lash out at people, especially me when she's stressed out. She gets annoyed with me very easily for the lamest things. For example, she told me about our old neighbor. I asked her one or two questions about him. She then told me that I ask to many questions. That's typical of her. She'll talk about stuff for awhile and be chatty, but then a few minutes later she'll tell me that she doesn't want me to talk so that she can concentrate. So I didn't talk at all.

After she did my hair, she lost it. She called me paranoid just for checking the price on things. I don't trust her after all the shady stuff she's done to me and other people. After she called me paranoid, she then told me that I don't know how to add just because I made one mistake the first time. I then figured it out. She was right. She told me that she calculated things 3 times. After she called me paranoid, she then told me that I don't know how to add just because I made one mistake the first time. I then figured it out. She was right. She told me that she calculated things 3 times. Despite her being so rude and nasty to me, I left her a 20% tip which she didn't even thank me for! I then told her that it's only common courtesy to do so.

Despite her being so rude and nasty to me, I left her a 20% tip which she didn't even thank me for! I then told her that it's only common courtesy to do so. She then told me that I know how she feels. Whatever, lol. I then got upset that she wouldn't even give me a free sample of anything. She has given me full sized products in the past for free. I didn't expect that, but anything would be nice. Especially since I gave her a ton of free makeup, and it was good mostly expensive stuff too!

She then told me that I know how she feels. Whatever, lol. I then got upset that she wouldn't even give me a free sample of anything. She has given me full sized products in the past for free. I didn't expect that, but anything would be nice. Especially since I gave her a ton of free makeup, and it was good mostly expensive stuff too!

I then got mad and told her to eff off. She then told me that I have issues. Later I texted her that night to apologize for telling her off, but she was out of line and owes me an apology too. She never apologized to me. I then told her that she's a narcissistic person with a strong sense of entitlement. She then went on to insult me after I told her that she needs to get help. She told me that I'm stupid, that I'm the one who's projecting and that way, that I have issues, that other people think badly of me, that I'm insecure, unhappy, and she even went so far to mention a secret that I told her about my marriage.

She then told me that my husband married me for a green card. We've been married for over 20 years, so that's not the case. She then sent me a poop emoji and laughed at what I said and said, here's a shiny piece of poop award for you. She was probably pissed that I told her that she missed out on an all expenses paid trip to the Caribbeans that mom & dad would've funded with my husband and I. I knew that she'd ruin the whole trip for me, so I didn't let her come with us. She never knew that until I told her that. I bet that really hurt her bad.

It's her fault since she was very mean and nasty to me most of the time during a family trip to Europe. She fought a lot with my dad and took out most of her stress out on me. She kisses my moms but for free meals, clothes, and to pay for her beauty supplies. She cuts my moms hair and does her nails for free. I only get stuff half off. It's not worth it to save money and to deal with her abuse. She keeps me waiting quite a bit at times too.

My regular stylist is nice, and she cuts my hair good. I'll just need a good colorist and someone who can do a good job straightening my hair. She was stressed about not being able to find work or clients at her new place. She is also having some weird breakout issues with her hands and back acne that she can't get rid of. She doesn't like her skin or hair that much. Her skin is bad, and even my friend told me wow, she looks like she's a lot older than you when she saw her pic. I'm older by 4 years, but I look no older than 30. She told me that I have nice skin and thick hair. I always thought that her hair was nicer looking than mine and it's not really thin IMHO. Her skin is bad though. Not being mean, just saying.

So, what should I do? Should I just avoid her from now on for good? What would you do? I think that it's better for me to stay the hell away from her for good. BTW, she could also resent me since my mom won't get to control my dads will once he's gone. She'll just take everything from her as my mom is naive and to trusting when it comes to her. So I will control her financial future, lol! I hope that my husband won't have access to the will as even he can be manipulated by her. She's that good. She can't fool me though.

I'm not evil, so I'll get her a used car if I have to. She'll be completely humiliated, lol! No more luxury cars for her when I'm in control! She'll also be put on a budget. She'll probably suck up to me and be all fake nice then, but I won't be deceived. If she is mean to me, it will come out of her budget, LOL! She'll get some stuff, but she'll burn through everything really fast.

She knows about my issues with depression, anxiety, panic (almost don't have that issue anymore thanks to med). Still struggling with depression mostly. I used to have an eating disorder and low self esteem too. She always told me that I'm to sensitive. She thinks I'm weak and she's strong. I got over the eating disorder years ago. And my self esteem is better than it used to be, but I'm not always confident.

She then told me that my husband married me for a green card. We've been married for over 20 years, so that's not the case. She then sent me a poop emoji and laughed at what I said and said, here's a shiny piece of poop award for you. She was probably pissed that I told her that she missed out on an all expenses paid trip to the Caribbeans that mom & dad would've funded with my husband and I. I knew that she'd ruin the whole trip for me, so I didn't let her come with us. She never knew that until I told her that. I bet that really hurt her bad.

It's her fault since she was very mean and nasty to me most of the time during a family trip to Europe. She fought a lot with my dad and took out most of her stress out on me. She kisses my moms but for free meals, clothes, and to pay for her beauty supplies. She cuts my moms hair and does her nails for free. I only get stuff half off. It's not worth it to save money and to deal with her abuse. She keeps me waiting quite a bit at times too.

So, what should I do? Should I just avoid her from now on for good? I think that it's better for me to stay the hell away from her for good. BTW, she could also resent me since my mom won't get to control my dads will once he's gone. She'll just take everything from her as my mom is naive and to trusting when it comes to her. So I will control her financial future, lol! I hope that my husband won't have access to the will as even he can be manipulated by her. She's that good. She can't fool me though. Or my dad anymore. He told me that she snaps at him, my mom, and her current b.f sometimes. He also said that she'll take the money and run as well as burn through it all right away. He said that she'll leave nothing to my mom who she supposedly cares about, and definitely not me even though she told me that she'll make sure that I get my fair share.

She is not a trustworthy person. I'm sure that she'll take whatever money my mom is left for herself mostly and then ignore her. I guess she thinks that it's my turn to take care of her when my dad is gone. I live far away, but she acts like I don't care about them since I don't take care of them. It's not as if I can drive 7 hours down there every time they need anything. They can function just fine usually. All she does is drive them to Drs. appointments and a few times she cleaned up after my dad when he had accidents after a few surgeries. That was only because of certain surgeries. He told me to get a good lawyer. Maybe she knows this as she did see the will. Perhaps that might explain some of her resentment towards me.

I'm not evil, so I'll get her a used car if I have to. She'll be completely humiliated, lol! No more luxury cars for her when I'm in control! She'll also be put on a budget. She'll probably suck up to me and be all fake nice then, but I won't be deceived. If she is mean to me, it will come out of her budget, LOL! She'll get some stuff, but she'll burn through everything really fast.

She knows about my issues with depression, anxiety, panic (almost don't have that issue anymore thanks to med). Still struggling with depression mostly. I used to have an eating disorder and low self esteem too. She always told me that I'm to sensitive. She thinks I'm weak and she's strong. I got over the eating disorder years ago. And my self esteem is better than it used to be, but I'm not always confident.

I can't see her again as she is toxic and abusive. I told her that I'm done with her. And I mean it this time. I doubt that she even cares though. I feel hurt, angry, betrayed, and depressed. I tried hard to nice to her. I did say and do a few mean things in the past when she provoked me, but I was never mean to her when she left me alone.

She's had a lot of problems with finances, bad boyfriends. A few even hit her once or twice. She sucker punched me once years ago and cut up my face that left me scarred for months. I also ended up with a very bruised face for a long time too. I wanted to call the cops, but my parents and husband stopped me as they didn't want her to get into trouble. She's been in lots of trouble before. She even went to jail once for hitting her ex b.f back after he hit her.

She is bipolar and unmedicated. She never really got help. She is a narcissist with a strong side of entitlement. My dad still pays for her Lexus. He was helping her out with her rent every once in awhile. She avoids him since they constantly butt heads about money. I will admit that he's cheap and controlling, so I give her that.

Sorry that this turned into a novel!