Oh, and my mom did not stick up for me. She was more concerned about waking up her b.f who was sleeping. She is always making excuses for her. She tells me that she is under a lot of stress. That doesn't give her the right to treat me badly though. I told her that you can't treat people like crap then expect them to love you. I really wanted to have a relationship with her, but I feel as if it's a lost cause. She has zero respect for me and she thinks that I don't deserve any. She blocked me after getting the last word in of course. I then blocked her too. She is almost 40, but she is still very mean and immature sometimes.

My dad told me that she said what she did to hurt me. Even my husband agreed with me to a certain degree. He did tell me that I don't command respect due to certain things that upset me. One of them was because I'm fat. WTH?