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Wow, sorry to hear that your mom was so psycho! I'm glad to hear that you finally managed to cut her out of your life for good. It still hurts me to cut my sister out of my life as we did get along sometimes. She made me laugh a few times as she can be funny.

I just told all of my friends about this. I hope that none of them end up judging me for wanting to have nothing to do with her again. I'm a bit worried that they might get annoyed at me for bringing this up as I have two friends who's dad just died. Also, another one works two jobs. And another one has a sick mother to take care of. I hope that I'm not being a burden to them.

No one I know has a sibling that is as evil as her. Only one friend had a dad who was verbally and mentally abusive, but he had Alzheimer's. He took care of him for years and his father never really appreciated what he did for him. He recently died so he's free now.

I'm a good person. I don't deserve to be treated badly. I'm nice and caring I'm flawed and far from perfect, but that doesn't mean that I shouldn't be treated with respect and consideration. I should've cut her out of my life a long time ago. It's surprising that my parents didn't try to convince me to give her another chance. Or maybe they think that we'll eventually be back on good terms after we cool off. It's not going to happen no matter what my parents or my husband said.

My husband warned me to never spend to much time with her as this is what happens when I spend more than a day or two with her. I spent three days with her. She took awhile to do my hair as a lot was done, and we did other things.