I have skimmed the posts so hesitate to criticize strongly but it does seem that some posters are shaming the OP for having such pictures taken in the first place. Personally I am okay with my body and my sexuality (but realize they are two different things). I made a sex tape with my BF years ago and trusted that it would be private. I am certain that would draw criticism from some folks here but I, like the OP, would prefer my private moments remain private but I'd not all up in a tither if people did see it. Culture in the US is more uncomfortable with nudity than some other cultures, (in the UK, I think)?