I would like to inform everyone that is concerned that I have reported this man and he is under investigation. Unfortunately he has already caused me serious damage therefore I will be pursuing this as far as I possibly can. I would like to see his license pulled.
Secondly, the occasional walk with your therapist is alright to do but if he wants to hold hands with you or put his arm around you while you are walking is inappropriate. The sexual fantasizing was him wanting to create a sexual fantasy with him and myself playing the part. We did not discuss any sexual problems that I have or had. But for everyone's knowledge I have not had any sexual urges since my assault back in 2005. I went into therapy after the assault and was diagnosed with PTSD. I have never been in therapy for any other type of mental illness in my life.
The problem I had is that he continuously violated my boundaries but his boundaries were never violated. Also, he was made aware of my concerns and did nothing to avoid the situation in the future. It is his duty to maintain and manage the relationship and if he is unable to do so he should have referred me to another therapist.
There has also been a concern about my hospitalization....it was approx. 1 month after I blew the whistle on him with my family doctor that worked in the same building. I believe the family doctor began to question his behavior as well and that is why he had me hospitalized, in an effort cast doubt on my statements.
Also in discussing this issues with other professionals in his field, I have found out that this isn't the first time he has exhibited this behavior.
With all that said, Everyone does have the right to express their opinions on the situation whether I agreed with it or not. I do not take it personally.
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