My T and I have discussed the "am I just your job" question many times. Yes, we agree that I'm her job, but I'm not "just" her job. If she would close her practice or move away, she's not going to forget me. She said we could still email if that were the case. We're not friends but that doesn't make our relationship less. I pay her half of her going rate and she is no less caring than if I paid her more. I wish I could clone my T and give her to everyone who has a horrible T!!