Sounds like a typical guy thing. Sounds like he wants to "try" different girls and THEN pick the one he liked best. Just to make sure he didn't pick someone then missed someone better coming along... Like when Howard met Bernadette on TBBT. They are not much of leap of faith type people, LOL. And yea, non aspies can be like that as well. If you can't deal with his ways, it is better maybe you part ways?