Doesn't look like its healthy for this friendship to include MH support.


Why not keep the friendship going but agree to take MI off the table...


I don't mean pretend nothing is wrong, and everything is peachy all the time. But rather, no in depth discussion, like you would have with a T. Just say whether you're in a good or bad space, without elaborating.


That way you two can shift the focus of your friendship, hang out, go shopping, have coffee, see a movie, light hearted things to get the two of you back on the same page, and your friendship back on track.


Maybe in future she will be better equipped to deal and share, maybe not, but at this rate, its best to draw a strict MH boundary in order to save the friendship.


My bf and I actually did this for a while, and it helped us immensely.