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Old Apr 08, 2016, 01:38 PM
Chyialee Chyialee is offline
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Originally Posted by clairerobin View Post
Patagonia - thanks for that insight. It seems to me he didn't save his subpar behaviour just for me. He treats everyone like this. And most likely many people bow down to his expectations. Which means he views me as profoundly flawed. I don't allow myself to be defined by others, so whatever he sees in me exists inside of him only. I know who I am and I know I don't want to work with disrespectful people.

Oh well done ClaireRobin!

Aren't people like this the most bloody exhausting folk on the earth?!

IDK if it's about power, control, or some hidden pathology I cannot figure out -- but people who behave in this way come under exactly one of my personal headings:

Not. Worth. It !

Impressive that you walked away and let him keep his unreasonableness for himself.

Xo,
Chyia, nodding head vigourously