Quote:
Originally Posted by guiltier65
you didn't misunderstand. The only problem is that my children are grown now. My daughter is almost 30, son is 26 and another son is 24. My daughter is very good at manipulating me with the guilt and reminders of the past. My middle son is an alcoholic with relationship issues, and the youngest is a perfectionist. It is so painful to realize that the issues they struggle with are directly my fault.
|
The fact that you feel guilt for past mistakes shows how much you love your children and that you are a good person . I few years ago with a combination of mental health problems and drug and alcahol abuse , I made many mistakes and was emotionally neglectful . as a result my children live with their father and I see them during holidays like now . I love my children so much like you love yours. We are better parents now , that matters. Forgive yourself . please don't beat yourself up. I know its easier said than done . pm me any time 😊💕
Sent from my GT-S6810P using Tapatalk